Life

Hello World,
I'm Samantha, but you can call me Sam. Ok well this is my first blog so here it goes. I've been through alot this year with friends fighting to break ups. I've seen my fair share of fights and I just need to get something through. You shouldn't hate people over stupid things. Like if its over a profile, another friend, if they seem to be too busy for you, or anything. It is just stupid for two people who have been through so much end up not being friends anymore over something stupid. My friend and I have fought and we are starting new not just blowing each other off. Oh cause she said I looked like a slut or Oh you are hangin with someone I hate. Well see you have to remember all you've two been through. Only then you will know if it is really that smart just to say
"Oh I hate you why can't you see that" or "Oh you just copy me to be like me". I can't see how two people can fight when they have been through almost everything. I mean I almost lost my friend cause of something stupid too. She one day said I looked like a slut cause of the way I acted and dress. Well see I knew I wasn't and all my other friends know that too. So to hear one of my friends tell me that hurt and all I wanted to do was to hate her and never talk to her again. But then I remember all the times we had together and how I have been her friend even if the people didn't like her or she didn't like one of my friends but we worked it out. We found the problem and talked out with each other and stuff. I know some people are going to think I'm doing this for a reason but to be truthful I'm doing it to make a point. When people you have two choices to run away and forget all about the person and say you hate them, or talk it out find out the problem. But that is up to you. If you believe the conflict is nothing and you can just say you hate someone then do it, I don't care really. But if can remember all the times that person had had your back or has been your friend when other didn't, Then tell me it is really right to tell that person you hate them. Cause to be truthful to tell someone you hate them is just like killing them inside. So are you willing to be a murder. You tell me. Cause in life you need people that will help you or support you. And even if you don't like someone they hang out with or one day you don't like what they are wearin or anything. Just think is this really worth losing my friend over. Or blowing someone off and say you hate even through they been through alot with you. I mean if you don't like what I'm saying or don't understand but ok. But if you do please comment or even if you think I'm wrong comment and tell me what you think I'm open to anything. I am willing to understand your point of veiw on this matter. Remember this is only my opinion.

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Samantha Ulven